Q:
Two weeks ago I met an awesome man. On the first night I thought it would just be a one-night stand but we have spent ten of the past sixteen nights together. He’s into my breasts more than I fancy. I have extremely sensitive nipples but he always insists on sucking and playing with them even more than he kisses me and it gets to the point of being painful. If I ask him to stop he will momentarily, but then he goes back to my nipples. Last week he asked if I had ever used a breast pump! Like why would I have ever used a breast pump? I don’t have children and I’ve never been pregnant. Then just the other day I swear milk came out of his nipples. My girlfriend doesn’t believe me and claims it isn’t possible but I know what I saw. I suspect there’s something not right here. Do you think he could be a transgendered person? Maybe this would explain his obsession with breasts? His body and penis all look normal, but I can’t explain the liquid that came out of his nipples.
-Feeling Like A Boob
A:
Dear FLAB,
While it could be possible he is transgender, I highly doubt it based on his ability to lactate alone. Men have mammary glands and are in fact capable of lactating. Some treatments to combat prostate cancer can cause this as well as hormonal stimulus. Even more rare but possible is male lactation through regular mammary massage and sucking of his nipples over a period of months. To me, it sounds the most likely explanation is that he is a lactophiliac. He can’t steer clear of sucking your nipples, even when you ask him to stop. He wanted to know if you had ever used a breast pump, and he himself lactates!
If this is something you’re into, or think you could get into, rock on. But if it’s a deal breaker, it’s time to wean this guy out of your world.